Melissa Urban answers your questions from her own experience

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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 52

Feb 20th 2026

A love story gone wrong (then right? let’s discuss.) Also, TikTok smut, more tips on going analog, one menopause tip you’ll be eager to employ, and OMG—was this written by AI?

5 invaluable lessons from my first real job

Feb 17th 2026

28 years ago, my boss asked me to do something icky. Here’s what it taught me.

Kiss, Marry or Kill: 51

Feb 13th 2026

A book that left me like “WTAF.” Plus, dogs are family (so you need this), I like this food and you can’t shame me out of it, do this one thing to reduce dementia risk, and GLP-1s versus Doritos

Curb impulse spending with one little question

Feb 09th 2026

Times are tight, y’all. Here’s the tried-and-true trick that keeps me from overconsuming and overspending.

Do The Thing Podcast

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My thing is helping people change their health, habits, and relationship with food–but this podcast goes way beyond food. We’ll explore what’s been missing every time you’ve tried to make a change, and create habits that actually stick.